Who are we?

We were a group of individuals who were all familiar with the complexities that grief brings at a young age. We came together over food and shared stories, tears, laughter and support and found that we felt less alone and more comforted on our grief journey.

Since 2019, we have been building a grassroots community of folks in the United Kingdom. After gathering regularly for the past few years at our own tables, switching to online during the pandemic, we now want to open up the community for others in their 20s, 30s and 40s who are impacted by grief and expand the offering across the United Kingdom.

Table 11 brings together people who have experienced the loss of a close loved one and want to find a community of people who understand what that’s like, that celebrates life and loss by creating space for connection for those who have been impacted by death in their 20s, 30s and 40s.



“We all bring something different to the table. The people who are gone and our relationships to them are all unique. There is a sense of comfort being around people who know what it is like to lose someone when you are still young and those around you don’t always understand how you feel. We’re excited to expand our community and give others the chance to feel supported too”

— the Table 11 Founding Team

In August 2022, Table 11 was introduced to the UK via the Channel 4 TV show “Good Grief?” with Reverend Richard Coles

What we do

We gather around food and encourage the sharing of tears, laughter, and learnings that come with loss. 

We offer an inclusive, consistent, informal, safe and friendly space for folks to share their experiences, free from judgment.

We match those wishing to join a table to a host in their area.
For our table hosts, we provide support and training on facilitating conversations about grief – including access to a certified grief therapist.

Why Table 11?

We often get asked, why Table 11?
What is the significance of 11?

The number 11 is often known as a "master number". It is believed to have its own unique and powerful vibrations. People who feel influenced by it tend to find inner strength in times of trial, coping well with crisis and chaos. Grief causes chaos and crisis, so Table 11 is designed to bring strength to those experiencing it. 

Number 11 is also viewed as a number of transition - the 11th hour comes right before the start of a new day. Grief can bring transition into a ‘new normal’ – one that is hard to navigate, so Table 11 hopes to help ease that transition through sharing of journeys together. 

For others that believe and are more spiritual, the number 11 also known as an angel number as it is believed it may contain a message that our guardian angels are sending to us. You may have looked at a clock and seen it is 11:11, or 1:11 a lot since losing your loved one. 

And finally, for those with a sense of humour, we liked Table 11 because it hinted at the ‘extra’ table at a wedding - the one where the misfits get placed, that ends up being the most fun table of the celebration. Once you join the club no one wants to be a part of, it’s nice to have other people to share the experience with, who get it.

  • Kendra Rogers

    CO-FOUNDER & EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

    Kendra lost her dear Momma Bear Laurie to Breast Cancer in 2015, 2 weeks before Kendra’s 24th birthday and 3 weeks after Laurie’s 60th, after a brave and multi-decade fight against the disease. Four years later she decided to sell all her belongings and make the move from Canada to London with her partner and their ginger tabby cat Louis. In 2020, she began hosting a table in NW London to support grievers. In 2021, Kendra then also lost her brother Jeremy, again to cancer. Alongside Table 11, Kendra works as Chief Communications & Marketing Officer for a Global FinTech and currently serves as Co-director of Insight for Outvertising, Advertising & Marketing’s LGBTQ+ advocacy group. She has previously served CJSW 90.9FM; the Food, Water, Wellness Foundation and the Calgary Youth Justice Society in volunteer roles. She is a graduate of University of Calgary and recently completed an Executive Education in Behavioural Science at Harvard Business School.

  • Lucy Cheverton

    OPERATIONS CO-DIRECTOR

    Lucy phrases the grief that has shaped and challenged her as “grief adjacent”. At 23, she had no living grandparents and both aunts had passed away (breast and brain cancer). Then in 2022, Lucy’s brother-in-law took his own life. While these loses are a cause of direct grief for Lucy, the toughest moments come trying – entirely cluelessly - to support her husband, and seeing her now 34 to 44 year old cousins taking on life without their mums.

    Alongside Table 11, Lucy leads Transformation Programmes for a range of clients and spends any time not at a laptop outside keeping her toddler and border collie exercised and happy!

  • Rachel Fowler

    CO-FOUNDER & HOST EXPERIENCE DIRECTOR

    Rachel Fowler is a storyteller. Whether as an actor, director, writer, or coach, she celebrates human stories, and the power they have to heal, reveal hidden truths and to transform. She is passionate about making the world more grief literate and more compassionate, both towards ourselves and each other.

    She is Certified in Business and Personal Coaching from Barefoot Coaching, a PCC with the ICF. She is also certified in the Rewind Technique, both from the Human Givens Institute, but also from David Muss, creator of the technique.

    When her 13 year old nephew died of a drug overdose on her daughter's birthday in 2016, she turned to creativity to process her grief, writing and directing a short film, and is currently working on a YA Novel. She became a Grief and Loss Coach in 2020, inspired by her nephew, her father and the collective grief around the world from COVID.

  • Claire Hobson

    CO-FOUNDER & CONTENT DIRECTOR

    Claire lost her amazing Mum, Penny, to a Brain Tumour (Glioblastoma) in 2017, after a long battle spanning 8 years. Five weeks later, Claire gave birth to her second son (a month earlier than expected). Claire had also lost her dear Uncle and Godfather a few months before her Mum, unexpectedly to a heart attack. The turmoil of dealing with grief of losing a parent at such a young age, whilst navigating a new baby and a toddler left Claire feeling alone and isolated. By being part of Table 11, Claire hopes to help others who feel lost and alone on the grief journey. Outside of Table 11 and being a Mum, dog Mum and Wife, Claire is a Lecturer in Marketing at University of Surrey, plus she also loves to run - anywhere up to Ultra Marathon distances!

  • Tara Walcott

    FINANCE CO-DIRECTOR

    Tara's journey with grief has been primarily through supporting friends and family, as they navigate the grief of losing their loved ones. In 2019, her husband endured the heartbreaking loss of both his sister and grandfather, which was an incredibly difficult period for him. Subsequently, in 2021, Tara then mourned the passing of her grandmother, and more recently, her uncle. These experiences have deeply shaped her understanding of grief and the importance of support during these difficult times.

    Beyond her involvement with Table 11, Tara works as a Financial Controller for an independent power producer. When she's not taking care of business, she enjoys her life as a wife and mother to her one-year-old daughter.

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    FINANCE CO-DIRECTOR

    Tom lost a close friend to an overdose at aged 30, which was the culmination of a sequence of events that started with suicide of her best friend a few months prior. Tom credits a chance meeting with a neighbour, who had just lost his best friend to a rare and aggressive form of cancer at just 27, with helping him through this incredible difficult period. It showed that the best way to stop the cycle of grief is to talk and share common experiences which is at the very heart of what Table 11 do.

    Tom is an FCA accountant, with 20 years of experience in Finance. Having worked across a variety of roles and industries he is now FD for a London-based consultancy business. When not crunching the numbers, Tom spends his time with his two gorgeous daughters, Rosie and Daisy, and engages in his dual-passions of sport and literature.

  • Duncan Cantor

    COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTOR

    Duncan lost his father in 2018 after a long battle with pancreatic cancer. Although the diagnosis meant the whole family was prepared for the worst, when it happened it was still a surprise, leaving a the ever-present thought that there should have been more time to talk about all the things that mattered.

    Duncan has worked in the UK, Germany and Switzerland in a variety of communications roles. He now lives in Derbyshire and alongside his day job runs a small farm with his wife where they rehabilitate rescued horses and breed rare-breed sheep.

  • Joanna Antkowiak

    GRANT & FUNDING MANAGER

    Joanna first became part of Table 11 as a guest at a table, sharing her grief journey with others. She has been a member of Table 11 since its inception, due to the loss of her younger brother Maciek. Since then, Joanna became a host, welcoming others to her home.

    Joanna says “I don’t think anyone would ever want to join the grief club voluntarily, but I found Table 11 makes that initiation just a little less painful. Each gathering is like a conversation among friends with broken hearts and I’ve seen via hosting my own table, how transformative and healing it can be for young people who are trying to live well after a loss, but find it hard to talk about it with their families and peers.”

  • Ardi Kolah

    ADVISOR TO THE BOARD

    Ardi endured a series of personal losses, beginning with his father's passing in 1987 after a brief illness. Decades later, in 2022, his brother died of cancer at 59 and six months later, in June 2023, their mother passed away at 85. Beyond these personal challenges, Ardi's distinguished career includes advising Boards, Global Partners, the Secretary of State, the Cabinet Office, Public Health England, the Lord Mayor of London, and Chiefs of Staff. His expertise in corporate, privacy, data governance, compliance, and reputational management spans the NHS, non-profits, the government, and private sectors. Ardi lives in Wimbledon with his wife, Fenella, and their youngest child, Avi, who is preparing for A-levels. Their eldest, Zara, is currently exploring Southeast Asia and Australia before starting her career later this year.

  • Anna Fry

    CO-FOUNDER + TABLE HOST

    Anna lost her dad Oliver to heart disease in 2017, when she was 25. They were living together at the time and his death was unexpected. For a long time, his death didn’t feel “real” - and she imagines this is a relatable feeling for some in Table 11. Anna was born in Germany but grew up mainly in England. She greatly appreciates the support and understanding she gets from the Table 11 group and hopes to be able to extend this support to others.

  • Hannah Peterson

    CO-FOUNDER

    Hannah lost her younger and only sister, Sarah, to heart failure in January 2018. She was only 23. While Sarah was born with heart problems, it wasn’t something that disrupted her life and it was shocking when her health deteriorated quickly towards the end of 2017. Losing a sister is not something you ever imagine happening and it’s been very difficult to have small talk with people knowing the question “Do you have any siblings?” will come up. Hannah is an American living outside London and works as an Account Executive for a consulting company. She loves traveling, sports, cheese, and her puppy Teddy (and her husband).